While exercising and eating healthy are extremely popular nowadays, sometimes they can’t solve all of your health-related problems. Let alone the fact exercising or eating healthy won’t make you happier if you feel miserable. It’s like fixing something with a duct tape. So, first of all, you should find out if your mental state is okay. Don’t underestimate the power of your mental state because if unattended, it can ruin your life. And vice versa, if you care about your psychological wellbeing, it can help you rise to the top in any sphere of your life.
So, why is mental health important?
Without mental health you are unable to build healthy relationships
And by healthy I also imply long-lasting. When you are insecure, anxious, aggressive, there is almost no way you find a person who is confident and calm. And even if you are lucky enough to find this kind of person, chances that he or she will be putting up with your problems for a long time are minimal. You always attract the kind of energy you produce. That is why if you think that all men betray or that all men abuse – these are the kinds of men YOU attract and the kind of “love” YOU accept. You should stop blaming everyone around you and look inside yourself. What do you see there? Do you see light and kindness or do you see darkness and evil? Are you usually miserable, jealous, or do you want to avenge everyone? Do you enjoy arguing? Do you enjoy being always right? Do you like to compete? Do you like to surpass others and let them know of your success? Do you like gossiping? Do you enjoy swearing and calling people names? Do you yell at people? Do you like taking more than giving? I hope you get the point. So, go for darkness and evil if you want to spend your whole life with an abusive man…I am sure you can draw the picture of that life yourself without my help. Don’t demand from people something you don’t possess. A mentally healthy man does not need neither a whiny nor a domineering women. A mentally healthy man needs a supportive partner. If you are possessive and jealous, this is also your problem only. Yes, this is a psychological problem. To start a healthy relationship, you need to grow up mentally.
Without mental health you are unable to build a career and actually survive
There are two types of people: people who are so extra and anxious at work and people who are calm and collected. If a person is somewhat talented, they can build a successful career no matter what type they are. However, what type will “last” longer? The second one. The first one will either experience a mental breakdown or develop a serious illness caused by constant stress. The second type will flourish.
Without mental health you have nothing to give to your kids
Parents with psychological problems will project their problems on their children. As a result, these children will develop the same psychological problems. Do you want you kids to have social anxiety? Do you want them to be afraid of this world? Do you want them to lack confidence? Do you want them to live an average life?
Do YOU want to live an average life?
In most cases, psychological problems won’t let you live your dream life. You are either too scared to fail, or too stressed out, or anxious of what other people would think about you if you try, or you don’t know your true desires. Living with psychological problems is like walking through an endless field of weeds. There is no path and no value around you. You are moving without a direction. Feeling like a victim, blaming circumstances or people without taking responsibility for your life will never help you drag yourself out of average life. Wherever you are, keep in mind that there are people who are chilling on their own yacht at this very moment and neither jealousy nor anger will help you make that lifestyle YOUR lifestyle. The difference between you and those people is your mindset which, in turn, is affected by your mental state.
Also, let’s not forget that people who can’t help themselves usually can’t help others. No matter what such people want to convey via their social media, they are unhappy. This website is dedicated to psychological and physical wellbeing and spirituality. If you want to improve your life, welcome. I’ve got a lot of interesting insights to share. Check out this article to find out about psychological problems that I had but managed to overcome.
I also used to suffer from social anxiety. In this article I share tips that helped me overcome it after 12 years of struggle.
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